Europeans and Americans live to fall in love, and many other countries and languages aren't much better. Live to fall, wow! In the Thai language the equivalent expression would be to get 'lost in love,' not much different. But Buddhist metta is better than that, all the best parts of love and none of the bad, friendship mostly. You can be kind and still be balanced. But this is a hard lesson to teach, because we're hooked on passion like junkies on the hard stuff, and there's not too much that we can do about it, even if we wanted to. Or can we? Of course, we can. And it's no accident that the original meaning of the word 'passion' is 'suffering,' just like that for which Buddhism is so famous.
It's just that at some point we started to like all that excess emotion, just like we began to 'love our lives,' while Eastern ascetics continued to renounce the pleasures of flesh and fish, just as they continue to do to this very day. I suppose that the Western attitude is that if we try hard enough, we just might create that eternal life that Jesus promised us all along. Does Virtual Reality count? It might have to, if we're serious about that as our goal...or, maybe we could just train our minds and tame our desires to a more acceptable level that allows for plenty of free time and a healthy dose of creativity, also.
Bingo, the Middle Path is always the solution, not passivity nor stress tests, just good honest old-fashioned hard work, complete with rationality, such that extremes of thought and opinion are rejected in favor of more conciliatory positions. In other words, you might gain less than the wildest stock option, but in return, you are also likely to lose less if your risks fall short of the mark. But that's more than a conservative business portfolio decision. That's a principle of life: make steady gains going forward, with always the option to change direction with any new information that accompanies the passage of time. That's the Buddhist Middle Path. We're playing for keeps here.
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