No, Buddhist love is nothing like the weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth that often accompanies Christian ceremonies, whether birth or death or the multicolor gray area in between, mostly sex. Buddhist love, metta, is just a whole lot like friendship, and there's nothing wrong with that. So, Platonic love, then maybe? I think Plato would be cool with that, maybe too cool. And that's what falls short for a lot of people, for whom devotion is the primary practice of their religion.
It just doesn't have the feeling of total surrender required for the religious experience in many people's minds. But that's Buddhism: cool, baby, cool. The devotional aspects were the last major additions to the three major canons of Buddhism, and long after the original discipline orientation of Theravada and the transcendental orientation of Mahayana. So, it's no coincidence that the Tibetans got their Vajrayana straight from the source of India, which is primarily devotional to this day, whether of Shiva or Vishnu, no matter the object. Devotion is the important thing for the devotee.
But whether the two additional 'vehicles' may or may not have added something important to Buddhism, the core practice of discipline and dana (giving) remain unchanged. Upgrade the meditative practice of anapanasati to vipassana, and BOOM! You've got a rebirth of the original Buddhism with or without the doctrine of Rebirth to the non-Self (?!). Ouch. Yep, that's better now, just to avoid questions that have no good answers. Too many cooks ruin the broth. The kindness is more important than the love.
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